Girls have infinite thoughts in their head when they fall in love.

Is this the right time to confess my feelings?

Does he feel the same for me?

Am I making a fool out of myself by feeling like that for him?

What if it affects our friendship?

Many more doubts and confusions cloud her vision before she can finally spill the beans. Maybe this is why boys are believed to be the only ones who must propose.

Do you even think that your girl is scared to tell you that she is head over heels in love with you? Despite those evident signals, are you still confused?

Let’s figure out some signs that clearly indicate that she has found her Mr. Right and that is you.

Signs that she loves you but is scared to tell you

1. Fidgeting is her normal state in front of you

During lunch breaks, have you ever noticed her biting nails or playing with hair or accessories? Does she only do it in front of you? If you’re nodding your head, probably it’s because she is nervous in front of you. Psychology tells that nervousness is one of the primary causes of fidgeting.

It clearly means that she is fond of you. Possibly, she does not know how to react and tries to uphold her composure.

Damn! She is unable to speak her heart out!

Calm down her horses and make her as comfortable as possible in your presence.

2. A conversation with you brightens up her day!

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Let’s talk over a cup of coffee!

She is always looking out for occasions for a coffee date and excited to have conversations with you.

She seems to take interest in your life and wants to know the tiniest of details about you. She is not only courteous but also trying hard to make you feel comfortable.

3. She is secretly gazing at you

When your girl knows the manner you sip a coffee, tap your feet, the way you speak, or walk, she secretly adores her Mr. Perfect and would not want to miss a chance to look at you. 

Boy, she has eyes for you.

Have you ever noticed her staring at you when you laugh out loud and she finds you adorable?

Believe me, she is in awe of you!

Next time, try to make eye contact with her and you will see how she would slightly roll her eyeballs to the floor (and ofcourse, the slight grin on her face will be worth the watch)!

4. Concentrate on her preference of songs around you

Does she always play romantic songs in your presence?

Hey you, love is in the air.


Love is not easy to hide, isn’t it? You just need to take the right cues and if you are feeling the same about her, do not waste a moment and confess your feelings to her.

Life’s too short and we gotta live a lot more beautiful moments!

5. You are becoming popular in her circle

When you have a crush on someone, who do you go and introduce her to? (BTW Crush and Love are two different things)

Of course, your best friends.

So, if you are famous in her circle of close friends or family members, this is it! You have secured a special place in her heart, already!

6. She seeks your advice

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“Hey, can you help me with decidingṣ what shall I wear for my friend’s wedding?”

“Does this color suit me?”

“I am taking off for a holiday! Shall I explore New York or Salt City?”

Do you often find her seeking your approval in choices that she makes? If your assurance lits up her face, you know it well that it’s a call!

7. She is unknowingly imitating you

Have you ever noticed her reactions are synchronized with yours when you both are together?

Psychology says we tend to mimic gestures of people we like subconsciously.


Another green flag is waving at you if you are experiencing something like this!

8. Complimenting you for every different thing you do is customary

“Hey, I like your shirt!”

“Hey, I noticed you got a haircut! It looks nice on you!”

“Did your sister gift you this wallet? Aah! It is so nice.”

If you are flattered with the nicest compliments that gush out of her mouth whenever she notices the slightest change in you, indeed, she is trying to make a way to your heart.

9. Her eyes do all the talking!

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If she tries to maintain eye contact or act flirtatious through her eyes, she is trying her best to communicate something more heartfelt.

Did she peep into your soul through your eyes?

10. She would be on your guard, always

If she likes you, she would try and make you feel protected and cared for.

Ever noticed she gets anxious when you tell her that you are unwell or you are feeling low? That’s because she is concerned about you.

If your safety and wellbeing trigger her emotions, that’s when you know she likes you more than a friend.

And boy, that’s very rare… she is really the ONE for you!

11. Your gallery is overflowing with her pictures

She keeps sending you lots of her pictures. One in a red salwar, one in white jeans, and one in the little black dress. But one thing stays common in all, that is, she looks stunning in each one of them!

What do you think she is trying to do?

Ofcourse, she is trying to impress you with her gorgeous pictures.  

12. Laughs at your lame jokes

I am sure most of you must have heard about how

Girls LOVE humor, and

A good laugh is a way to her heart.

Yes. It is. But you are special.

She won’t laugh at your joke just once or twice but ALL THE TIME. Even when others find it really lame and boring, she still laughs to reassure you that you are a funny man.

So, if you can make her laugh, you know something is already up!

13. Her touch says it all

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Every time she passes by, she gently touches you.

She might not be doing it intentionally. But that is how this stupid heart functions. As soon as your heart starts feeling something more than friendship, your touch becomes gentle and soft.

So, keep a tap on how she shakes hands with you or how she pats your back.

That’s where the cues are hiding!

14. She wants to know more about you

How many people are there in your family?

What was your childhood like?

Where did you grow up?

And the questions never stop. This is one of the most evident signs to identify if there’s love cooking in the flame of her heart. She will always be keen to know more about your personal life, professional goals, or anything else that is not to your outer circle.

The next time you are up for a conversation with her, pay attention!

15. Where are you?

This will not be known to you unless a third person reveals it to you. By the third party, I mean your best friends or ones who are really close to you.

So, here’s a secret: A girl in love will always look for you. ALWAYS. Even when she knows that you have taken a sick day off from office or bunked classes at college, she will still get upset by not having you around.

So, if your bench partners tell you that she was looking for you when you were not around, Well…

16. You upset her easily

Girls are very tender and emotional.

The more attached she is to you, the more likely she is to be upset at your changed behavior.

Even though your intention was clear as ice, she will still get really upset at the change of your tone, non-reciprocation of feelings, or even a never-found twist in your words.

This doesn’t mean she is weak; this simply means that you matter to her and she didn’t expect such talks from you.

Boy, you need to be really careful if you wish to keep her.

Is this it?

Now when your heart has clearly understood that she has the hots for you and if you feel the same, you gotta do something. Buy her favorite chocolates and let’s just give a little pain to your knees as you would be bending down to confess your feelings to her.

Well, I know it’s not that easy. There’s something still in your mind ‘Why is she scared of confessing her feelings to me?

Let’s find out.

Why is she scared?

Does it baffle you that despite showing all the symptoms of being in love with you, she is still holding her feelings back?

If you share mutual feelings, why not initiate confession?

My friend, a Roman poet once used a powerful phrase ‘Carpe Diem’ that is “seize the day”.

Do not wait for tomorrows, do it when your heart says it’s the right thing to do.

An important tip: Always take care of you and your beloved’s fragile heart. Getting into a relationship is a matter of responsibility and you have to take utmost care of your partner and understand their fears as well as accept their shortcomings.

Have you ever thought of why she is afraid to share her feelings with you?

The guessing game does not always work. There can be multiple reasons why she is still not ready to confess, including:

1. The dark past still haunts

A bad relationship might bother a person longer than assumed. If she is holding back her feelings, then probably it’s because she has learned a life lesson in a harsh fashion. If this is the case, she might choose to take every little step cautiously.

A quick tip: You got to spend more time with her and take efforts in knowing each other before taking any step ahead.

An abusive relationship scars a woman till death. If your girl has experienced this in her past you got to heal every little scar with love and care and make her believe that you are not one of them.

One must also respect the other person’s choice of whether to indulge in a physical relationship.

2. Scared to commit a forever

Marriage is a sacred thing and two people before binding themselves into this lifetime bond should develop full faith in each other.

Sometimes this lifetime commitment becomes a barrier to the confession of love.

Even dating requires considerable commitment and in today’s era, we should set boundaries before taking the dive. Spending time with each other works the best to explore future prospects.

3. She is an extremely patient lady

If a girl is secretly dropping hints but not being vocal about her feelings, then chances are she is waiting for the right time by remaining steady.    

4. She does not find herself worthy enough

Insecurities and low self-confidence are seemingly the most common problems faced by today’s generation. Maybe your woman is one of them.

A quick tip: You gotta make her feel on top of the world!


5. She wants to see your reaction

She might be looking for signs from you as well.

Ting Tong! You both are trying to open the same gate of love!

She might be waiting for assurance from your part to have been experiencing the same emotions as she does! She doesn’t want to feel abashed due to faulty judgment.

Time for you to drop some evident hints; chances are she wants you to confess love first.

If the ship of love has sailed from both ends, now is the time to put in the effort and try to find out what is the accurate reason in your situation.

If you were able to hunt the problem with the help of this guide then please think about how to harness the issue and resolve the dilemma.

Be gentle with her and yourself, too!


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