Top 11 Best Married Dating Sites To Spice Things Up

#1. Ashely Madison

Ashley Madison is one of the most prominent married dating sites. This is due in part to its longtime presence in the online dating scene since 2001. Since then, it has catered specifically to married people looking for spicy sides. Because it’s been around for so long, Ashley Madison has a huge active user base full of real people behind nicknames and blurred photos for privacy and discretion.

You might also know Ashley Madison from its data leak in 2015. Since then, the company has worked tirelessly to update website security and ensure that your private information stays encrypted and safe.

How it works

Unlike other dating sites, Ashley Madison won’t lock you into the commitment of a fixed monthly subscription just to get started. Furthermore, women can shoot and receive messages for no cost while men need to purchase credits to initiate getting to know the women on the site.

That being said, signing up is an absolute breeze for both men and women.

Why to Join?

Since this dating site has more male users than female users, Ashley Madison has rolled out a rights reserved feature called the Priority Man which male users can pay for. This feature shoots your profile to the top of search results and brings all your messages to other users for their immediate attention.

Ashley Madison also secures your photos behind a private password that you can give out to other users that spark your interest. This is so you and your potential partner can get a more intimate look at each other apart from the relatively anonymous public user profiles.

#2. Victoria Milan

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#3. Heated Affairs

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#4. Adult Friend Finder

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#5. BeNaughty

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BeNaughty has built-in privacy settings to ensure that you’re interacting with only the highest quality profiles and users through its Full Safe Mode and Basic Safe Mode, which protects you from suspicious users and only allows verified users to message you.

#6. Horny Wife.com

HornyWife.com is exactly what it sounds like: a website for discreet and consenting adults looking for fun. Sites for married people usually have no membership fee up-front, but HornyWife does. This is to keep scammers out as well as to protect its users as discretion is key when looking for low-commitment arrangements.

How it works

Sign up for this online dating site and input your payment details to be immediately thrust into an oasis for open-minded married people. All the information you provide will feed the HornyWife algorithm everything it needs to connect you with matches and compatible people.

Why to Join?

HornyWife proudly features its photo and video chat, which you can use to get to know someone in a more intimate way before meeting up. Unlike other online dating sites which can be chock-full of features and visual clutter, HornyWife keeps it simple by making it about profiles and conversations, without the ads!

#7. NewHoney

This honeypot is one of the best sites for married people to find like-minded individuals that can help spice up their bedrooms. The site focuses on couples looking for a discreet and open-minded third party or married folk with insatiable desires.

How it works

NewHoney’s registration process is a little different from what you’d expect. Instead of the cut-and-dry basic information, it gives you an 18-question quiz to personalize your experience on the website. The quiz asks you about yourself, what you want to find on the website and the type of relationship you seek.

Once you’ve completed your registration, the quiz results will be used to find your contact proposals. This contact proposal system is enacted in lieu of an open-search system to ensure that you get matched with exactly the type of person you’re looking for. Women can use the website for free, while men are given a free trial of the premium experience to decide if it’s all worth it. 

Why to Join?

This online dating site gives you a more personalized experience than other sites, which makes it attractive to busy users looking for a quick match. The contact proposals that the website picks out for you are not time-sensitive and are constantly updated as more people sign up for the website. All users can see everyone that likes their photos or has interacted with their profile in some way.

#8. One Night Friend

While One Night Friend was originally designed to help single people find one night encounters, the website has attracted the hush-hush married crowd because it lets users be a little mysterious. Take note that users who haven’t put anything in their profiles won’t be able to see anybody else’s information!

How it works

One Night Friend asks for all the usual information but also gives you the option not to divulge anything, which means that your profile only reveals as much about you as you let it. This dating website emphasizes the importance of email verification as unverified accounts are usually filtered out during searches, all in the name of keeping a high-quality community.

Why to Join?

Even though One Night Friend gives you the freedom to write next-to-nothing on your profile, it has one of the most robust profile pages that I’ve ever seen on a dating website. Other than the usual accouterments of your age, gender, and location, you can also make your matches privy to your dating and sexual history and the number of tattoos and piercings you have.

#9. XMatch

XMatch is run by the same minds who run Adult Friend Finder. This website caters specifically to one-time encounters or short-term engagements that are kept safely away from your personal life. Any kink, regardless of how uncommon it might be, has a place at XMatch.

How it works

XMatch has a pretty standard registration sequence: you fill in your registration details, indicate your gender and the gender you prefer to interact with, and decide if you want to reach out to other couples that signed up for the site together. One unique thing about XMatch is that every user is required to write a short and snappy tagline about themselves to entice potential mates.

Why to Join?

XMatch has a ton of features that premium users can utilize to make their hunt for casual fun a little more engaging. One feature that many users favor is the advanced search feature which lets you input your physical and kink preferences to get the man or woman of your dreams. If you need a little more to convince you, XMatch also lets you video chat with other users privately or as a group.

#10. Whats Your Price

WhatsYourPrice is a unique entry in this list because it takes the traditional online dating site experience and makes it a little more interesting. This site is built around the idea of a dating auction which connects generous bidders with attractive people to make for interesting and fun dates. Users can sign up as either “attractive” or “generous”, and it’s exactly what it sounds like.

How it works

Upon registration, you’re given the choice to bid on the person that interests you, making it a game of incentive. The user being bid on then selects the offer that’s most agreeable to them, and the two users can chat afterward.

Why to Join?

WhatsYourPrice has a pretty in-depth bidding system. Bids can be countered and rejected without a limit on how much you can spend! If you’re not too keen on dropping money right away, though, there is a public chatroom where you can get to know other members.

#11. Gleeden

The final entry on our list of best married dating websites is Gleeden, a site that’s aimed at rounding up married or unmarried people that just want to have some fun. This site has all the bells and whistles of a regular married dating site with the main difference of being run by a team of married women.

How it works

At its core, Gleeden respects your privacy, and that’s why it doesn’t even require you to provide a profile photo upon registration. The only information the website needs is your location, your gender, the gender you prefer, and a unique username. By design, you can tell Gleeden gets you.

Gleeden has an internal search engine with a multitude of filters so you can narrow results down to just how you like it. Men need credits to converse with other members, while women may use the site free-of-charge. The site also has very communicative support agents that can help you get started.

Why to Join?

Gleeden has all the basic features that married dating sites have: private and public photo albums, online gifts, and private messaging to get you started. It encourages taking those messages in your inbox to get the ball rolling.

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